Travelling in Rwanda as a Solo Female

Travelling in Rwanda as a solo female was a perfect introduction to travelling in Africa. That probably surprises a lot of you, particularly as most people associate or know Rwanda for the horrific genocide that took place there. But that was over twenty years ago and this tiny country has made great efforts to heal and transform. And yes, family and friends were worried about me traveling there especially as I had my heart set on travelling independently. But my experience was of well organized transport, clean streets and friendly people together with beautiful landscapes and one of the most incredible wildlife encounters on the planet.
So why Rwanda?
After seeing so much of Europe, Asia, North and South America the idea of visiting Africa started to take hold. Top of my wish list was to the see the critically endangered gorillas.
That narrowed down my Africa trip to the three countries where gorillas can be found – Rwanda, Uganda, and Congo. After a bit of research I decided that travelling in Rwanda as a solo female would be safe and possible. So Rwanda was to be my first real African country (I don’t feel like Egypt really is Africa given it’s strong Middle Eastern feel).
This is my experience of travelling in Rwanda as a solo female.

Travelling in Rwanda as a Solo Female

 

Kigali

After three flights from Sydney via Doha and Entebbe, Uganda I finally reached Kigali, the capital of Rwanda.
The city of Kigali stretches over hill after hill after hill with the small centre focused at the top of one of those hills. I happened to arrive for Umuganda Day. Umuganda means to come together and in traditional Rwandan culture members of the community would call on their family, friends and neighbours to help them complete difficult tasks. As part of the reconstruction of Rwanda the government drew on this concept and now on the last Saturday of each month communities come together to do a variety of public works, predominantly cleaning. It’s one of the reasons Rwanda is so clean! (Another reason is because plastic bags are banned!)
What it meant for me on my first day in Rwanda was that the streets were pretty empty and most of the shops were closed. Not quite what I was expecting.
Kigali's centre was really quiet because of Umuganda Day

Kigali’s centre was really quiet because of Umuganda Day

One place that was open was Hotel des Mille Collines – the infamous ‘Hotel Rwanda’. It was at this hotel that local, Paul Rusesabagina, allowed Tutsis and moderate Hutus to take refugee during the genocide. That story was transformed into the film ‘Hotel Rwanda’.
Today the hotel is set amongst peaceful gardens, and makes for a pleasant place to relax with a drink.
Hotel des Mille Collines - the infamous ‘Hotel Rwanda

Hotel des Mille Collines – the infamous ‘Hotel Rwanda

Hotel des Mille Collines - the infamous ‘Hotel Rwanda

Like most travellers to Rwanda I was acutely aware of the genocide that took place here in 1994. In just 100 days around 800,000 people were slaughtered in Rwanda by ethnic Hutu extremists.
Genocide is completely beyond my comprehension.The idea of neighbours turning on each other, killing each other, blows my mind. Yes, that’s right neighbours killing each other.
The role of propaganda is always present. This was clear at the Kigali Memorial Centre.
Kigali Memorial Centre

Kigali Memorial Centre

The Kigali Memorial Centre is intense but in my view incredibly important. Important in order to remember those who were killed, to remember those who lost loved ones, important as a memory and sanctuary for those who live with trauma today, and hopefully so that humanity does not allow this horror to happen again.
To get to and from the Memorial Centre I took a moto – a motorbike taxi. A cheap and efficient way to get around Kigali.
Waking the streets of Kigali I found it hard to reconcile what I had seen at the Memorial Centre and often thought most of the people on the streets had lived through those terrible days.
Kigali centre viewed from Kigali Memorial Centre

Kigali centre viewed from Kigali Memorial Centre

While researching my trip I learnt of a women co-operative which ran walking tours in the oldest part of Kigali, Nyamirambo Women’s Center.
I loved seeing  the city through the eyes of a local and that the profits were used to pay seamstresses, a local library and literacy classes and workshops on women’s rights.
And it included lunch at a local women’s home! Delicious!!
Nyamirambo - one of Kigali's oldest neighbourhoods

Nyamirambo – one of Kigali’s oldest neighbourhoods

Nyamirambo - one of Kigali's oldest neighbourhoods

Nyamirambo Women's Center's Library

Nyamirambo Women’s Center’s Library

Delicious local lunch

Delicious local lunch

Lake Kivu

From Kigali I travelled to Gisenyi on Lake Kivu by local bus. Lake Kivu is one of the Great Lakes of Africa and I was keen to see it. I was also keen to see more of Rwanda and not just be focused on the gorillas (later in the post!!).
Rwanda is known as the land of a thousand hills and on my short three and a half hour journey to Gisenyi it was clear why.
For the entire trip the bus wound its way over and around hill after hill after hill, the smell of eucalyptus drifted through the open window, reminding me of home. On the side of the road a constant progression of locals walking or cycling carrying all manner of things, wood, bamboo, vegetables in huge sacks, water in yellow plastic tanks. A fascinating snapshot of local life which I absolutely loved.
And yes I was the only mzungu (white person) on the bus!
The land of a thousand hills

The land of a thousand hills

Local life

Local life

Travelling by bicycle is a common way to get around in Rwanda

Travelling by bicycle is a common way to get around in Rwanda

When I arrived I discovered Gisneyi was a bustling town with lots of colour and more interesting people watching.
Downtown Gisenyi

Downtown Gisenyi

Gisneyi

Gisneyi

Colourfully dressed local women in Gisenyi

Colourfully dressed local women in Gisenyi

I arrived around 1pmish and after checking into Discover Rwanda Hotel I took a moto straight out to Rubona Peninsula. This peninsula juts out into Lake Kivu and provides great views out over the lake and it’s shores. The perfect place for a long lunch to soak up the beautiful scene.
Lake Kivu views

Lake Kivu views

Local life on Lake Kivu

Local life on Lake Kivu

Lunch views on Lake Kivu

Lunch views on Lake Kivu

Back in town many locals were hanging out, or exercising by the lakeside beach. Many of the locals were keen to practice their English or generally chat with me when I was down by the beach.
Lake Kivu Sunrise

Lake Kivu Sunrise

Musanze

The next day I headed to Musanze. Musanze is the third largest town in Rwanda and is one of the most convenient bases to tack gorillas.
I was keen to see more of the local life and culture, and what better place to see both then the local market. As I walked in it seemed very few tourists ventured into this bustling scene. The locals were bemused and more often than not didn’t want their photos taken. But occasionally they did.
The colourful local market place of Musanze

The colourful local market place of Musanze

Exploring in Musanze's local market

Exploring in Musanze’s local market

Local Woman at Marketplace

Local Woman at Marketplace

Gorilla Tracking

On my final day in Rwanda I woke early to see Rwanda’s standout highlight – the mountain gorillas! Tracking the gorillas in Rwanda was simply magical and easily one of the all-time highlights of all my travels. To read about my experience click here. Otherwise here are a couple of photos from my all too short one hour with these incredible animals.
Silverback and baby gorilla

Silverback and baby gorilla

Bubba Gorilla looking super fluffy

Bubba Gorilla looking super fluffy

Simply magical

Simply magical, and the gorilla were so relaxed around us

Practical Information

Travelling in Rwanda as a solo female and independently was surprisingly easy. The country is small enough to make the bus trips relatively short and mini-buses leave so regularly I generally would simply arrive at a bus station and leave nearly immediately.
However, don’t be surprised if you are the only tourist on the bus as the majority of tourists travel in tours or with drivers with the focus mainly on seeing the gorillas only.
Mini-buses like this are the best way to travel around Rwanda

Mini-buses like this are the best way to travel around Rwanda

Motos - the best way to travel around the towns and cities of Rwanda

Motos – the best way to travel around the towns and cities of Rwanda

 The only time travelling by bus was a bit overwhelming was when I arrived back into Kigali. It was Friday dusk and the place was heaving with vehicles and people. It was pretty chaotic and hectic. When our bus stopped it was mobbed by people and there was a fair amount of shoving and pulling. My backpack was safely stored under a seat that was hard to get to so I sat back and waited for the bus to empty. A super kind local uni student also decided to take me under her wing and help me to find a taxi. Luckily I had a rough idea of how to get back to the hotel where I’d stayed where I arrived and could direct the driver as he had no idea where to go.
Given I’ve travelled a lot I wasn’t overly worried about the chaos and the driver being a bit uncertain but I can imagine that for some travellers, male and female, that could be stressful.
While I was in Kigali I stayed at Step Town Motel where John and Emmanuel went out of their way to help me find my way and organise drivers to the bus station, etc. The hotel also had lovely views from their patio over the hills of Kigali.
In Gisneyi I stayed at Discover Rwanda which had a fantastic location just opposite the beach front. However, the service at the restaurant was lacking. I fully appreciate that travelling in countries in Rwanda means service won’t be like home but waiting for over an hour and a half for dinner was not great. In fact generally it was commonplace in Rwanda wait quite a long time for meals. I suggest you order well before you’re actually hungry!
Discover Rwanda, Gisenyi

Discover Rwanda, Gisenyi

In Musanze I stayed at Amahoro Guest House. It was central, very simple and nearly empty when I stayed but Honest, who ran the guesthouse, was another who went out of his way to answer my questions and help me change money, etc.
And finally a special mention of Isange BF Restaurant in Musanze. The most delicious chicken dish of my Africa travels!
So if you would like to travel to Africa as a solo female but are a bit unsure why not try travelling in Rwanda?

Travelling in Rwanda as a Solo Female

 

 

25 comments on “Travelling in Rwanda as a Solo Female”

  1. Tim UrbanDuniya Reply

    Great post – very enlightening, not just in terms of the experience of being a solo female traveller in Rwanda, but even just what Rwanda is like anyway – pictures of Lake Kivu and that lady at the marketplace are wonderful. I’d love to go there some time!

  2. Karen Reply

    What an inspiring blog, thank you for sharing. After having five weeks in Romania and seeing how they’ve healed after the atrocities in the Ceausescu reign of the 1980’s I think posts like these are so very important to change perceptions. Kx

    • Carly Reply

      Thank you Karen!! I also think travelling to places like Romania, Rwanda, etc is so important in changing perceptions. I also travelled to Iran three years ago and it was completely different to how the west and media see it. What I love most about travelling in those places is being reminded we are also so similar and there is a shared humanity despite a difference in religion, culture and language.

  3. Nicky Reply

    Wonderful article – I have very clear memories of the news footage of Rwanda, and it’s not somewhere that I ever would have considered visiting, but this has really changed my mind. It looks so beautiful! And seeing the gorillas must’ve been absolutely out of this world. Thank you for bringing attention to a place that really deserves to see some love from the international travel community!

    • Carly Reply

      Thank you so much Nicky! I also had memories like you but it really is amazing to see how far this little country has come since then. Tourism is a big part of that change. The gorillas are obviously are a big drawcard and spending time with them was so special. I would encourage anyone to think about visiting this under-rated country.

  4. Gabriela Reply

    So cool that you’ve also been to Rwanda and also solo! It’s such a beautiful country and the contrast is huge when you cross the border from neighboring countries! For me, it almost felt like a holiday during my overland trip in Africa.

    • Carly Reply

      Thanks Nafisa!! I’m so happy to hear my travels and post is helping people, especially women, to think about Rwanda as a destination to travel.

  5. T Reply

    Great piece Carly!! I am travelling to Rwanda and then to DRC for my gorilla trek Oct 2018. Booked 4 nights at a local guesthouse.
    Do you have a driver you would recommend? Re: airport pick up and drive to DRC border?

    Cheers!
    Tracey
    Vancouver, 🇨🇦

    • Carly Reply

      Thanks so much Tracey!! I used local transport so unfortunately I don’t have a driver to recommend. For airport pickup I asked my hotel in Kigali to pick me up – I stayed at Step Up Hotel and they were super helpful. Are you planning on travelling in Rwanda? If so the DRC border is right next to the Rwandan town of Gisenyi so you might want to consider taking the local bus to Gisenyi and taking a taxi from their to the border. I don’t think it is very far at all and wouldn’t be expensive. Hope that helps and let me know if you have any other questions 🙂

  6. peter parker Reply

    This is truly a great read for me!! Once again, thanks for the quality articles you post on your blog!! That is very interesting You definitely made my day with this awesome post. I am always searching for informative stuff like this! I will check here often for more cool stuff

  7. MercyWere Reply

    Thanks for sharing I’m a wanna be solo travel…Rwanda has been on my mind /list.I now feel more comfortable pursuing my dream of solo traveling

    • Carly Reply

      I’m so pleased to hear that! I always hope my posts inspire people and show them it’s possible to visit places they weren’t sure about. I hope you have a fantastic time in Rwanda!!

  8. Christophe Reply

    Hi Carly, silly question, but especially at night and in the cities, did you feel safe? I read Rwanda was one of the safest and most peaceful countries in Africa nowadaysnowadays but i’ve had a couple of bad experiences on that continent, in South Africa especially, I have this love/hate relationship with Africa, it’s an incredible land in general but sometimes not easy to travel solo. Your article makes me want to go back, especially as Ruanda is definitely on my top 5 places to visit on that continent!

    • Carly Reply

      Not a silly question at all! I’m not sure I would say I felt safe at night. I didn’t venture out at night too often and when I did I made sure it wasn’t too far from where I was staying and it was generally well lit. In the cities I did feel safe but I naturally attracted a lot of attention as I stand out with my blonde hair, blue eyes and white skin. That can be quite unsettling for many people. I felt Rwanda was pretty easy to travel solo and safe with the right precautions and being aware of your surroundings. I hope that helps! Rwanda is a great country and it would be great to see more independent travellers head there rather than the package tourists.

      • Christophe Reply

        Thank you! Always good to hear some real info from fellow travelers. I guess I’ll have to give it go then!

  9. Melissa Reply

    I loved your article and just wanted to say thank you for sharing your experiences. You inspire me to travel solo, keep up the great adventures!
    Melissa

    • Carly Reply

      Thanks Melissa! That’s the reason I blog and share – to inspire others, especially other women!! So that is so wonderful to hear.

  10. Augustine Reply

    Hi Carly, thanks for your insightful article on Rwanda.
    I like your inputs on the local experience and am sure this helps solo travelers considering a trip to Rwanda, and solo females in particular.

    • Carly Reply

      Thank you so much Augustine!! I always hope readers find my articles helpful, especially for a country with little information for the solo travellers.

  11. Nora Reply

    Hi there, I am going to Rwanda and am thinking of booking a monkey trek as well, but it will be just me so I think my only option is a private tour with just me and the guide. Is that how you saw the gorillas or did you go as part of a smaller group? I don’t want to pass up this opportunity but just want to see how you did it. Thank you!

    • Carly Reply

      Hi Nora. Seeing the gorillas is highly regulated and you need a permit obtained from the Rwanda Development Board. The permit and regulations stipulate the size of the group and that you can only spend one hour with the gorillas. I obtained my own permit and followed the instructions to join my allocated group. To see the golden monkeys it’s the same set up in that you need a permit form the Rwanda Development Board. I didn’t get to Nyungwe so didn’t do the chimpanzee trekking there so can’t help on how to do this. But hopefully I’ve given you some info which helps out.

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